Saturday, 4 April 2026

Author: Adeline Liong

Cooking some of my niece’s favourite food

My favourite niece, Ah Hong, is here for a short holiday. She has asked me to cook some of her favourite food before she returns to her parents in Johor Bharu. Using WhatsApp, she sent me a list of her favourite food weeks before she came here. After enjoying lunch

Important to love ourselves first

When I was a high school girl, I knew an old Hainanese auntie. I was in my teens while she was in her early 70s. We lived in the same house in Sibu. In those days, it was common for families to rent 
different rooms in the 
same house. This

I bid you adieu! Till we meet again

Today, I have intense pain in my heart as I write this column. No, it’s not a heart attack. It’s more like a broken heart. This week is the last time I will be meeting a young friend.  I first met the 11-year-old girl at a friend’s tuition centre about

Smash away your stress in rage room

Dear friends, have you ever been so stressed or mad about life that you want to do something drastic — like smashing not only a bottle but many bottles to pieces? In Beijing, China, there is a place where you can do just that. You just have to pay 158

Don’t believe everything you read or see online

Beauty you’re born with, but brains you earn. – Jay Kristoff, Australian author The 16th President of the USA, Abraham Lincoln, once said, “You can fool all the people some of the time, and some of the people all the time, but you cannot fool all the people all the

Divorces more common now

Do you know that in Malaysia, nearly half of the marriages which end in divorce break down because of financial issues? If you are a South Korean drama fan, just like me, the most shocking news you’d have heard was probably the divorce of the SongSong couple, namely actor Song

Looking after dear old mother

I was glad my elder sister was around to keep my mother company at night. Knowing she was around put me at ease and allowed me to enjoy my trip.   My elder sister was in Kuching for a few days recently to look after my 83-year-old mother while I

Beauty in diversity

While Sarawak is already well-known as the Land of the Hornbills, it would not be surprising if those present at the Miss Unity Sarawak 2019 grand final wished that Sarawak should also be known as the Land of Beauties. The phrase “beauty in diversity” came to mind when I think

River of no return

All of us are travelling on the river of no return. No matter how difficult the journey, we have to navigate the fast waters and dangerous rapids till we reach our destination.   As I bade farewell to an 11-year-old girl I met last week, I advised her to be

Reading holds the key to success

I never feel lonely if I’ve got a book — they’re like old friends. Even if you’re not reading them over and over again, you know they are there. And they’re part of your history. They sort of tell a story about your journey through life. – Emilia Fox, English