KUCHING: Most mothers consider their children as their world, caring for them in every way possible. But depression can change daily life, affecting routines and emotions.
Lienacus Gabil, 37, a mother of four, lives in Batu Gong with her husband and children aged two to 16. She was diagnosed with depression in 2019.
“Lienacus’ situation shows how mental health impacts family life, but with community support, mothers can still maintain care and stability at home,” said NGO Hope Place Kuching.
Previously working as a clinic assistant, Lienacus is now a full-time housewife. She often experiences mood swings and daydreams, especially when her children are at school or husband at work.
Although she struggles with her mental health, Lienacus refuses medication, believing she does not need it. Her husband, Simon, 40, works at a quarry earning minimum pay to support the family.
The couple faces challenges with their seven-year-old son, Abdil, who frequently skips school. The family received a warning letter, highlighting the importance of addressing his emotional needs.
Lienacus and Simon try to communicate with Abdil, but he rarely shares his feelings. At home, Lienacus copes with mood swings through patchwork, her favourite hobby that brings focus and calmness.
Despite her mental health struggles, the family’s home is neat, tidy, and well-maintained. The empty house has no furniture, yet it remains clean, showing her care and discipline.
Hope Place Kuching continues to support Lienacus and her family, providing basic food aid and encouragement. They urge the community to help families struggling with mental health.
For support or donations, contact Hope Place or Persatuan Kebajikan Harapan Kuching (PKHK) at 082-505987 or 013-5672775. Contributions can be made via MBB account 511289001160 or their Facebook page.
