AS Father’s Day approaches, many take a moment to reflect on the quiet strength and wisdom inherited from their fathers.
For some, a father’s advice and example serve as a daily reminder of discipline and life values.
For others, those principles have guided their careers and shaped their direction in life.
In a series of interviews with young individuals, Sarawak Tribune gathered heartfelt stories about what their fathers taught them and how those lessons continue to influence their identity, resilience and purpose.
Christie Enap James, 26, Factory Operator:
“Since I was young, my father always emphasised the importance of responsibility. Whether in studies, work or relationships, he would always say that if we make a decision, we must be prepared to face the consequences. He was not one to speak much, but his actions set the example. When I saw how he cared for the family and never slacked off at work, I knew that was what he wanted me to follow. This Father’s Day, I am deeply grateful to have been raised with such strong principles.”
Amanda Sara Henry, 23, Housewife:
“One of the most valuable things I learned from my father is the importance of respecting others. He always showed us how it should be done – whether with neighbours, workers or anyone we encountered. He often said people respect us not because of status or wealth but because of our character and kindness. Those words have stayed with me until now. Whenever I feel angry or want to react impulsively, I remember how my father always dealt with things calmly and patiently.”
Nur Khairunnisa Satie, 24, Housewife:
“My father did not come from an easy background. He started from scratch, doing all sorts of odd jobs in the village to support the five of us. But he never complained. He taught us that success does not come instantly – you need patience and perseverance. Who I am today is the result of the fighting spirit he planted in me from childhood.”
Rynna Sha’erra Douglas, 29, Lecturer:
“Happy Father’s Day, Daddy. Thank you for every moment and every ounce of love you’ve given me. I will always be grateful to be your daughter – and now, a wife. As I begin this new chapter, know that my husband will care for me as you always have. One day, when I have children of my own, I hope their laughter will remind you of the little girl you once held in your arms. I love you, always.”
Although their journeys differ – whether in politics, the arts or academics – what they share is a father’s influence that shaped their values and direction in life. Whether about hard work, emotional wisdom, or the courage to stand for what is right, these lessons remain relevant across generations.
Father’s Day reminds us that a father’s role goes beyond providing and protecting. It is also about passing on life values that continue to resonate deeply within their children – quietly, but profoundly.
